Posts Tagged ‘Porn’

It’s All Blown Over

Monday, March 26th, 2012

Last week, a video emerged of N’Dubz singer Tulisa giving her then boyfriend some oral pleasure. Sex tapes are so *yawn*, but the reaction to this one bears some discussion. This seemed to have been the most talked about blow job since Bill Clinton ‘did not have sexual relations with that woman.’ It is sad that we live in a time where what happens behind closed doors can be shared publicly and on such a grand scale. Not only is it shared, it is scrutinized and judged. The main thing we learned from last week’s debacle? That fault, judgement and shame will always be laid at women’s feet. And this, amigos, is a problem.

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Music & Porn

Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

A few weeks ago I had a bit of a rant about Rihanna and her tendency to walk dangerously close to the porn line in her videos. Well, now UK artist Skepta has decided to throw any kind of caution in that arena to the wind and just go ahead and make a porno with his music in the background. The internet was ablaze last week when he released the video for his song ‘All Over the House’ and reaction has been predictably mixed.

I’m not familiar with any of Skepta’s work but just to bring you up to speed, his song ‘All Over the House’ is an intricate tale of how he and some random chick had sex, well, umm, all over his house. Deep and meaningful, it is not. I heard people were up in arms about the video but no one was really saying why. I made it through about 30 seconds before my inner catholic lost her shit and shut it off.

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